Marketing is Not a Verb

Last updated: 6-24-25

marketing is not a verb

Marketing is not a verb. At least not anymore.

There was a day, under the old regime of one-way legacy media, when audiences were captive to marketers who “targeted” them—like fauna grazing in the wild forests of content—in order to collect them like trophies in bundles called “market share.”

But in the internet age of continual two-way communication, community, and choices, those old methods of selling seem cruel and unusual. (If you need proof, just visit the YouTube page of pretty much any major global brand and notice how alien and disconnected from reality the content seems, even when they try to be “authentic.”)

While megacorps may be able to afford to create billions of dollars worth of weird advertisements designed to brainwash entire swaths of culture, not everyone has that luxury. The good news is that people hate to be sold to anyway, what people want is to be talked to, and that’s what the internet does best.

Ultimately, marketing ought to be the natural outcome of communication.

Put another way, marketing is what happens when you effectively communicate something of value.

As a small business, you are more personally connected with your audience than the megacorps will ever be. You already speak their language and you know what they need to hear, all you have to do is speak up.

people like shopping

As I stated in ​yesterday’s message​, people generally don’t like to be sold to. If you have any kind of ad-blocker installed on your browser, or if you have declined a site cookies popup, or paid for Spotify, you’re probably one of those people.

But . . . people do like to go shopping. And when you’re shopping you are naturally taking in a lot of sales messages at once, comparing them, and making value judgements between them. On purpose.

So what’s the difference?

The difference is who is in control of the experience.

Selling is initiated by the person who wants to make money.

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Shopping is initiated by the person who wants to spend money.

Selling to non-shoppers can potentially be a ​waste of time​ for both parties, but if we have our content and messaging organized, ​clarified​, and easily accessible to a shopper already prepared to spend money, we won’t need to do much selling in the first place.

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